My 14 year old boyfriend wants oral sex with a big woman

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Dear Pastor,

I am a 14-year-old girl living in Kingston. My boyfriend is always asking me to suck his body parts. I did it one time, and now he is telling me that he wants to suck a lady who lives nearby. I found a text in his phone that he sent to her asking her to make him ‘suck her good’. I dont see them talking much again, but I need to know what to do.
Jo Anne, Kingston

Dear Jo Anne,

At your age, although a lot of young people are having sex and oral sex, you should not follow or make anyone pressure you into doing anything sexual. You are making the right choice by questioning what is happening. It perhaps means that somewhere deep down you do not want this boyfriend.
The first thing you need to do is find ways to stop this relationship with this 14-year-old boy. It is important and it really helps when you try to focus on you and your school work. Try to go to a counsellor or pastor or police, for continued guidance.

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